I have completed the 2nd stage of maturity. Now, I am able to withstand extreme like death, torture and pain. I know how to react if I kanna accident or fatal illness. I know my limits which is that I can die any day or become handicap. And others. I have connected big problems with medium and small problems. Small problems are like going for interview, or making a presentation, or social events. I have understood well enough to remove the sufferings in it, in the form of nervousness, which is painful. i also know that at times I should let myself be unreasonable and emotional and to just experience the suffering in full force and allow it to manifest by itself, accepting all outcomes that it may lead to. Hence, the above skills confirm that I have finished the 2nd stage of maturity and is now stepping in the third stage.

3rd stage
The type of people in this stage is usually self help gurus, businessman and scholars. However, this people usually face the problem of decreasing marginal understanding of truth. Because they do many things right and their life is relative peaceful and happier than others, it is difficult to see what else did they make a mistake in their life.

I thought about it and realize what I am missing. With this knowledge, I completed the 3rd stage and went on to the fourth stage. To go into the fourth stage, one has to know this, you have to know what is the purpose of life for us human in this era, and there is a common answer. As I said because most smart people don’t know as it is hard to see.

4th stage
You have the right skills, knowledge and purpose of life now. Remembering that you still cannot control many things even if I am in this rare 4th stage that only 0.1% of people in the world has it.

At the 4th stage, mistakes are still frequently make by me. Big mistakes, small mistakes all are possible. And with big mistakes, you will experience the bat outcomes associated with it. This is coherent to the theory that I still cannot control many things in life. what happens is that there is still infinite room for improvements so you will just keep experiencing more things to learn more until you die.