words to aviod
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, your relative superiorty
love, hope, desire, wish, proud, look down on others
sad, happy, jealous, guilty,
a lot of feelings and ideas are empty, do not waste time dwelling in them, goood or bad.
focus on actions and rationale thinking, be productive.
feeling good about your maturity.
if you find that others are a few laps behind him, one coomon bad habit is overconfidence and arrogance or superior feeling.
logic: if you are indeed better than others, use this infomation in a productive way. feeling good about yourself is a waste of time. first, you do not have proof that you are really better, you only think you are better, based on observations, but our observations and logic may be wrong.
even if it is true that others are worse than you, so what, it is not good for them, nothing to do with me. you must be able to dish out the application of infomation by being more perspective and more application oriented.
for example, if there are 2 person, you bserve that person A is more capable than B at handling this project, so you hand it to A to do it, making a correct choice. this is where you use your observantion skills of others into practical use.
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